Wedding Gifts

Unless you are involved in the ceremony or a close relative, weddings have a way of creeping up on you. An announcement is made months ahead of time, and the weeks leading up to the event move forward. Then, suddenly, you look at the calendar and you only a few days left!

Suddenly it is time to shop for some last minute wedding gifts.

General wedding gift etiquette states that if a person is not going to attend a wedding, they are not obligated to send a wedding gift. But if they are actually going to attend the wedding, giving a present is the norm.

If you are giving a gift, you will want to choose just the right present for that soon-to-be married couple.

A check or cash is certainly an acceptable and traditional wedding gift, though perhaps not particularly thoughtful. In some cases, the wedding couple may actually prefer money. Be sure your card has your name on it so they will know who gave them the money.

Wedding gift baskets come in all types and styles. The traditional wedding basket is usually wicker or woven. Wedding gift baskets can be purchased online or handmade. They can be filled with traditional items like scented candles, perfumes or body lotions. Food items like chocolates, nuts or other treats are another common theme. If the couple has a particular interest or hobby, here is your chance to really shine. If they are into sports or outdoor activities, you can add items to the basket to reflect those interests.

Unique wedding gift ideas for the bride and groom include personalized presents such as monogrammed items, such as pillow cases, bed sheets and throw blankets. A his and her bath set embroidered with their initials make another great gift. A set of wine glasses with the last name initial etched on them is also classy gift. Many online stores offer embroidery and etching services. Customized wedding gifts are well remembered by the couple because of the trouble you went through in having them made custom just for them.

Personalized gifts make any occasion more special. There are many, many personalized gifts available both through both online and offline gift stores. Unique gift ideas include wooden picture frames and personalized wedding keepsakes, such as photo albums, silver boxes or other items that can be engraved with names, dates and other special messages. These gifts also make great wedding anniversary presents.

Many times, a couple will want to give a wedding gift for the moms and dads. This is to show how much they appreciate all that their parents have done for them. Personalized gifts are always a great choice. Other ideas include gift certificates, sending them away to bed and breakfast, or a day at the spa.

If a person is not going to attend a wedding, they are not obligated to send a wedding gift. But if they are actually going to attend the wedding, giving a present is the norm.

If you are attending a wedding soon, the date will creep up on you. Rather than waiting for the last minute to stuff an envelope with a check, take the time to find just the right thoughtful present that will be remembered and cherished by the married couple for many years to come.